Blended Life - A Blended Family Podcast

Blended Life EP. 68: Custody Agreements And What You Need To Know Before Court

October 29, 2020 Blended Life Season 1 Episode 68
Blended Life - A Blended Family Podcast
Blended Life EP. 68: Custody Agreements And What You Need To Know Before Court
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Blended Life - A Blended Family Podcast
Blended Life EP. 68: Custody Agreements And What You Need To Know Before Court
Oct 29, 2020 Season 1 Episode 68
Blended Life

 On this episode we put our heads together, and also asked our IG followers to chime in, about things to consider including in your #custodyagreement before going to #court. We were able to compile a comprehensive list of topics you may wish to address during mediation or the divorce process when it comes to your children. It’s important to first figure out your non-negotiables and your “I-don’t-cares” on each item before you begin negotiations. This way you will be confident in what boundaries you want to set with your ex and what things you are willing to give on because this is all about give and take; both parties need to feel represented, heard, and like they’ve won some of their wants. There’s no “right” answer when it comes to custody agreements, but what is the best interest of your children considering the abilities of each parent. It’s very important to have a clear baseline covering as much as you can agree upon, it’ll prevent future frustrations for all involved. Things change after #divorce when other people begin to enter the picture and want to have a say in the way your children are being raised, so getting it down on paper as early as you can protects the integrity of the natural parent’s wishes. We will provide this list on our website as soon as we get some free time to get it typed up. Feel free to comment below with anything you’d like to add to the list! We hope you enjoy!

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Our Purpose: Why is talking about blended families and life in general important? Because we believe that we can do better than what statistics say about second marriages lasting, about blending families making it, that’s why! A 70% divorce rate statistic for remarriages with children is simply unacceptable! Spreading life lessons, passing along wisdom gained from experience and bringing to light what is often happily left in the dark to hide, is how we all can learn to be better, to do better the second time around (in a #blendedfamily many lives depend on it). Together we can avoid costly mistakes that will end in the demise of our precious families.   -Blended Life 

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Show Notes

 On this episode we put our heads together, and also asked our IG followers to chime in, about things to consider including in your #custodyagreement before going to #court. We were able to compile a comprehensive list of topics you may wish to address during mediation or the divorce process when it comes to your children. It’s important to first figure out your non-negotiables and your “I-don’t-cares” on each item before you begin negotiations. This way you will be confident in what boundaries you want to set with your ex and what things you are willing to give on because this is all about give and take; both parties need to feel represented, heard, and like they’ve won some of their wants. There’s no “right” answer when it comes to custody agreements, but what is the best interest of your children considering the abilities of each parent. It’s very important to have a clear baseline covering as much as you can agree upon, it’ll prevent future frustrations for all involved. Things change after #divorce when other people begin to enter the picture and want to have a say in the way your children are being raised, so getting it down on paper as early as you can protects the integrity of the natural parent’s wishes. We will provide this list on our website as soon as we get some free time to get it typed up. Feel free to comment below with anything you’d like to add to the list! We hope you enjoy!

Connect with us! We would love to hear from you!

 Julie’s Fabulous VIP Color Street Nail Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/juliesfabvip/?ref=share

Purchase Color Street Now: https://www.colorstreet.com/JulieStolz


Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blended_life/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theblendedlifeofficial/ Facebook

Blended Family Support Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/285159338709513

Blended Life website: https://www.theblendedlife.net/

Email us: [email protected] Watch our Podcast live every week right here on

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/BlendedLife Listen to our podcast on your favorite app!

Podcast Directory: https://blendedlife.buzzsprout.com/ Listen to us on your favorite Podcast

Apps: Apple music, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, Stitcher, iHeart Radio, Pandora, TuneIn + Alexa, Podcast Addiction, Podchaser, Pocket Casts, Deezer, Listen Notes, Player FM, Podcast Intex, Overcast, Castro, Castbox & Podfriend

Our Purpose: Why is talking about blended families and life in general important? Because we believe that we can do better than what statistics say about second marriages lasting, about blending families making it, that’s why! A 70% divorce rate statistic for remarriages with children is simply unacceptable! Spreading life lessons, passing along wisdom gained from experience and bringing to light what is often happily left in the dark to hide, is how we all can learn to be better, to do better the second time around (in a #blendedfamily many lives depend on it). Together we can avoid costly mistakes that will end in the demise of our precious families.   -Blended Life 

 Julie’s Fabulous VIP Color Street Nail Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/juliesfabvip/?ref=share

Shop Color Street Now: https://www.colorstreet.com/JulieStolz